I was wondering if someone could give me some ideas on how to handle this situation. DS goes to a really good high school. Great Ofsted, exam results etc. He loves it and is doing well. A big factor for us in choosing the school was the range of other things on offer, especially drama & sport, as DS loves both. However, things haven’t really worked out on that front & I’m not sure what advice to give him about how to handle it.
He goes to the local theatre group and loves it but is not really enjoying drama at school. He is in Yr 10 now and has auditioned for the school play each year – there is always one sometimes two so this makes for about half a dozen auditions that he’s been to over the years. Neither he nor his friend who goes each time too have yet managed to get a part much beyond the chorus or crowd scenes. The decent roles always go to the same handful of children. For example, one boy – whose parents are very active on the PTA and have helped raise a lot of money for the school, which may or may not be a coincidence! – has been given a main role in every school play. Don't get me wrong, this boy is really good, but I can’t believe that he’s the only possible choice out of 100+ children auditioning each time?
DS has always taken on whichever part he's been given and got on with it. However, he's getting a bit fed up with it all and saying that perhaps he’s just not very good at drama after all. I can only imagine how much work these things are to put on so perhaps I should just accept that the staff have earned the right to do the show however they want! However, AIBU to think that the school could perhaps be a bit more inclusive in their approach - or is this just the way things are done?
The cast list for the latest show went up last week and it is the same names in the main roles. DS said to me he doesn’t want to do school productions any more as there’s no point - he says he never gets a good part but still has to go to dozens of rehearsals just to shuffle on and off the stage a few times. On the one hand, I tell him that life is about trying and trying again and it's still nice to take part, even if you don't have much to do yourself. But on the other hand, it does seem to be knocking his confidence. So, do I encourage him to keep auditioning or would he be better just focusing on out-of-school drama instead - what do you think?
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toastandjamplease · 09/11/2017 08:54
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