Hi everyone,
I have been with a man 17 years older than me for nearly a year. We both have children from previous relationships and live an hour and a half apart. The relationship has been very intense and turbulent, but has taught me a lot, I have had the highest of highs and very low lows. A lot of the issues we’ve had have been to do with sexual fantasies.
He works full time and I’m doing a masters full time. I have suffered greatly from anxiety this year.
We took our children away for a couple of nights together a few months ago and he found it very very stressful,some of it was really good but I think the noise was a bit much for him,so I haven’t had my children around him since then.
We spend all our free time together (no children) and have a lot of fun. But I’m torn, I’m in love with him, and I get very upset when I leave him, but I have a gut feeling, this isn’t going to go anywhere, and I’m putting in a lot of time and effort as well as emotion. What do you think ?
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Coffeeplease88 · 07/11/2017 08:11
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