I have lived with my DP for 3 years, I thought I’d found the one! We’ve just had a baby.
However I’ve just found out that he is still having quite intimate conversations with his two Exes, his ex wife and GF before me, about us. I saw a couple of these conversation from social media and DP said that he wasn’t sure if he loved me, to both his Ex wife and his Ex GF.
I’m afraid I did look at his messages after I saw the phone bill recently which showed that he and his Ex wife text each other now and then as late as midnight/1am and got spooked. I asked him and he said it was just to leave messages about their kids (two with Ex wife).
Now I know his Ex wife and Ex GF both have new boyfriends, so I don’t think they are getting back together or having an affair, anything like that. I guess I’m just gutted that he’s telling them about our problems. I’m also gutted that he isn’t sure whether he is into me, especially as we have a new baby.
I really did and do think that we are so suited, we had a whirlwind romance and DP was very keen to commit. He’s responsible, kind and fun, and finally I met someone who seemed to get me. I took it as a good sign that he still got on with his Exes however not to this extent. AIBU?
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For not getting over DPs conversations about us with his Ex Wife?
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Vegetablegarden · 06/11/2017 23:21
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