I have a hobby I've been involved in for a while. It's not uncommon but not something loads of people are interested in.
My ex was abusive. I left him several years ago but we have DC so I can't remove him completely from my life and he regularly tries to find new ways to control me or make life more difficult. Although we do face to face handovers after contact we don't really speak and all correspondence is by email as I've had so many problems with him in the past and I am not comfortable in his presence for obvious reasons.
I've found out that he's now interested in joining in on my hobby. There's only one group locally and that's the one I'm part of. There aren't even a dozen of us in it.
What can I do? Most of the people there don't know about my past with him. I don't want to seem unhinged by insisting he can't join in. Can I even stop him? AIBU to speak to the others and let them know about the situation? He will try to make out I'm the one causing problems if I try to get in the way of him taking part.
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FlippingFlaps · 06/11/2017 10:41
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