I am so upset as i type this and have tried to speak to hubby, but to no avail.
My daughters boyfriend came to stay this weekend. He was clearly in a bad mood today as he had talked to his Mum and it had desended into an argument. She was rude to him and he in turn answered her back. His brother owed him money and that again caused him to be fed up.
My daughter had arranged for him and her to meet up with some friends and they let them down at the last moment. I was getting on with my day. Infact i was painting my nails in the back room.
Well my daughter flew down the stairs and shouted at him 'well what are we going to do today'. She was bloody rude!
He snapped and went out for a bit to the high street and he picked up some milk for me.
The rest of the day has now been ruined as she is upset and has consequently taken out her upset on me. My husband has just gone out of his way to be akward and basically be contrary to anything said. She has inturn exaggerated everything and basically been rude to me. I now find out from hubby that she has text her boyfriend and said 'thanks to you im getting bombarded with questions'. I am beyond words as all i asked her about 4 hours later was if she was ok and had she receied a text from him. I went to sit on her bed to be nice and show some support and she basically told me to p* off. So i'm sitting her really upset and fed up. I now look like some mum who gets over involved and im not. I have keep myself to myself all day watched strictly on catch up and done a few arrands and i have been treated like this
apparently he is so cross with me that he is sending me a text not to ask questions. (He hasnt actually done this and i dont think he will)
Advice on what to do next as i am so angry myself now and i do not want to inflame anything but i also do not want to have people be rude to me or about me.
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Icecreamlover63 · 06/11/2017 10:34
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