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AIBU to think you shouldn't give a toddler a sparkler?

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KitKat1985 Fri 03-Nov-17 19:03:54

Just that really. Quite a few pics on my facebook feed of people with their 2 / 3 year olds holding lit sparklers. It gives me 'the fear' just looking at it and I just can't imagine ever giving my 3 year old a sparkler at her age. I've seen enough pictures of sparkler burns to know how dangerous they are, and I just don't think children that small understand how dangerous they are. I'm sure the parents are supervising and everything, but it only takes a second for a toddler to grab the 'lit' end or to pick up a used sparkler off the ground and not realise it's only just gone out and it's still burning hot. AIBU and a killjoy?

PinkHeart5914 Fri 03-Nov-17 19:06:55

I will be giving my eldest who is 2 one of Sunday, he will wear gloves, I will hold his hand and a bucket of water will be there.

I had them from a young age as did my siblings, so to me there is nothing wrong with it

60percentofthetime Fri 03-Nov-17 19:09:31

If I'm holding my toddler's hand then it's fine, but I wouldn't let him hold a sparkler by himself, even for a second. He'd poke himself in the eye with it, or try and feed it to someone.

OlennasWimple Fri 03-Nov-17 19:10:42

With close supervision they are fine (and one of those joys of childhood that it would be sad to lose)

SomeBananasAreStillGreen Fri 03-Nov-17 19:12:25

I did this, but held the toddler's hand and put the sparkler straight into water when it went out. I wouldn't trust a toddler to hold a sparkler unless I was holding it too.

Sirzy Fri 03-Nov-17 19:13:05

I’m with you. I don’t even think the holding with them is a good idea when it comes to pre school children.

catsofa Fri 03-Nov-17 19:13:42

TWO years old? Jesus, NO. Just no!

Gretia Fri 03-Nov-17 19:14:38

With close supervision I think they're fine. They need to experience things to learn and sparklers are fun!

Dobbyandme Fri 03-Nov-17 19:14:57

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SandyDenny Fri 03-Nov-17 19:16:36

I think it's OK as others have said with close supervision and gloves etc

MsHarry Fri 03-Nov-17 19:18:06

I gave them to mine wearing gloves with my hand over theirs, moving their hand to show what to do.

LittleBirdBlues Fri 03-Nov-17 19:18:08

DD just turned 2 and I wouldn't trust her to hold one properly yet. DS is 3 and I have no issue with him holding one at all, he's quite a reasonable little boy who is quite good at staying safe when I explain things.

Obviously, I'll be right next to him at lał times.

Fruitcorner123 Fri 03-Nov-17 19:18:53

I agree with you OP it's not ok its risky

KalaLaka Fri 03-Nov-17 19:19:58

Totally agree. Not worth the risk... get a glow stick!

ImSoExhausted Fri 03-Nov-17 19:20:00

@PinkHeart5914 please don't make him wear gloves! Unless they're the fireproof type! He's better with an open hand getting a few specks of heat, than a speck of heat causing a whole glove to go up in flames!

Alittlepotofrosie Fri 03-Nov-17 19:20:28

Its fine if you're supervising them properly.

ShatnersWig Fri 03-Nov-17 19:21:04

TWO? God no. I'd probably not risk it at 3. Four potentially

PiffleandWiffle Fri 03-Nov-17 19:22:58

If they're old enough to wave their hand around in front of them & laugh then they're old enough to do it with a parent keeping an eye on them.

Primaryteach87 Fri 03-Nov-17 19:25:54

You know your child, I’m not sure ‘sensible’ and following instructions is a purely age based thing. My toddler is very safe in these situations as he has a high (over!!) developed sense of fear. He will follow my instructions to the letter although of course I will be holding it with him and both wearing gloves. My eldest on the other hand will be give a slightly warm marshmallow to distract him and firm daddy cuddles- he has a radar for danger!!

QuestaVecchiaCasa Fri 03-Nov-17 19:29:14

No particular view on Toddlers holding sparklers but I have been reminded of a snake shaped burn which I got when I picked up a spent sparkler that had gone out but not cooled down sufficiently.

I loved that scab it was the best ever smile

Cornettoninja Fri 03-Nov-17 19:43:24

My dd is almost 2 and I couldn't imagine it tbh. I don't particularly like them anyway but I don't like giving her the message it's okay to play about with things on fire.

She'll have to wait till I judge she has enough common sense and self control. Poor lamb grin

wrenika Fri 03-Nov-17 19:43:44

No way. They shouldn't be give to children under the age of 5, no matter how well you supervise, because they are dangerous. The end of a sparkler can burn from 1000degC to 2000degC. You wouldn't give a toddler something the temperature of boiling water so why on earth would you give them a sparkler which burns so hot! Think about being splashed by hot oil when you're frying...that hurts, and that's nothing on a sparkler's heat.
I'm all for fun and not wrapping kids in cotton wool, but equally, don't give them something so dangerous when they're not old enough to safely handle it!

NoStraightEdges Fri 03-Nov-17 19:47:26

<shudder> my dsis gave my son one when he was a toddler. She thought I was being mean for not letting him have a go.

She held her hand over his and did all the right things, but it was damned stressful (for me, her and him) and she agreed afterwards that I had a point. I mean, fun it was not.

So I'm in the no way Jose camp. Said toddler is now almost 5 and I'm dreading him wanting one this year.

KitKat1985 Fri 03-Nov-17 19:52:54

Mixed views here. I think it's worth being aware that ROSPA have advised that sparklers are not given to children under 5.

I also can't seem to find a UK link but I've been told before that sparklers cause more injuries than any other firework, and this US link supports this statement, as well as noting that 9% of all people injured each year by fireworks are under 4:

Obviously each to their own, but I'd rather give my DD a glowstick to play with than something that burns at about 1500 degrees C.

Wowzel Fri 03-Nov-17 19:59:33

I've looked after toddlers with sparkler burns so my DD won't be getting one until she is 5.

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