Ok so I have no idea if I am being completely irrational with pregnancy hormones and just need a good shake to sort my head out so am totally ready to be told IABU...
So for the last 2/3months I have absolutely dreaded my MIL coming round, this is completely unlike me, I normally get on with her famously and have no issue with her weekly visit and tbh with you I really couldn't work out why I was feeling like this... then on Wednesday she came round and was met with the same feelings of wanting her to leave/not come etc. I spent the day yesterday racking my brains and I think I know why and it has nothing to really do with her. My DH is an excellent husband and dad to our DD but for some unbeknown reason whenever his mum is here he feels the need to point out at some point how special his and DD's relationship is in one way or another, I've sort of just eye rolled over the years when he has done this and kind of felt sad for him that he feels the need to point this out to his mum in a round about way BUT now for some reason it's actually upsetting me, I think it's making me feel like I'm just a lemon standing there, obviously there's nothing special about me and her as no one feels the need to point it out ever. I know this is so ridiculous but it's making me feel like shit tbh. AIBU? If in the slight chance I'm not how can I talk to him as he isn't doing it to make me feel shit, he doing it to make himself feel better.
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feelingold101 · 03/11/2017 06:47
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