This is long hope it makes sense!!!
Basically, ExH has started to accept, suggest and even offer babysitting for our DS (10 months - where he will come over, give dinner put to bed and listen out for him til I get home etc)
But recently when I’ve asked him if he wants to/can do it I just get a reply of ‘no’ no reason or anything just a straight ‘no’ but he often whinges at me if He finds out that my mum or best friend has babysat for me to take extra shift(s) at Work or go out etc. But I ask him and he just says no all the time after saying he wants to/will do it?!
So my AIBU is, wanting to go out next Saturday afternoon to the cinema with some friends, an also ask him to do a date in early December for Work xmas so if he says no to either/both of them do I say anything? And what do I say?
I feel it’s unfair that he already does hardly anything because he works/has a life etc - but then so do I?!! I just feel like f he doesn’t actually want to do it then he shouldn’t offer/suggest it?!
Help please!!!
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To confront Ex about 'babysitting'???
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user9217 · 02/11/2017 23:21
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