Sorry for the click bait title guys but you know how it is!
I AM SO ANNOYED
So bit of a back story so get your snacks!! – I like cherry coke-
So I have recently moved out of my parents’ house after a brief three month stay due to moving to the other side of the country.
Could not at the time live with boyfriend in his flat due to renovations being done etc
So fast forward the three months to moving in with boyfriend and all happy families.
NOW, I had asked my mother if I had any mail come to her house to please just drop me a text and ill come get it (sounds reasonable enough right?)
I also advised her that I would be changing my address after October because the role I’m starting in November has her address while it goes through referencing.
Just to reiterate –
She knew I would come get the post
She knew the role I’m getting requires
myself to be referenced through her house etc
I was going to change living address with the bank after October passed
SHE AGREED TO ALL OF THIS – before someone says its her right to decline, she said it would be fine
TODAY – I go into my local shop and pick up some food for the weekend and go to check out to not only have my card declined but to get a good telling off from the shop assistant because they were busy.
Que be being mortified and confused because I KNEW I had money in that account, so I go home and go through the banks automated not helpful service to find out that my mail had been returned to sender!!
The bank said that my account wouldn’t be activated for at least 48 hours!
I have multiple things on tonight and tomorrow that require me to draw out money.
Partner is putting up the rest but I’m so annoyed at my mother for just sending it back without a second thought of how it might affect her daughter, I get if she had said no in the first instance that she did not want post coming to her house but she didn’t and now I’m scrambeling to just get stuff in order.
I know worse things happen in the world but I don’t think im unreasonable to think that if someone says they are going to do something..they do it?
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Mothers little fib
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Blankuser1992 · 02/11/2017 08:40
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