I am graduating soon and my family have arranged to come to the ceremony, a round trip of several hundred miles.
Dp was supposed to be working that day so I didn't book him a ticket but said we could all go out to dinner in the evening to celebrate. All fine.
Except now it turns out dp has the day off but now he can't come to the ceremony as it's too late to get a ticket. I'm fine with that, but he has also not bothered to get time off for the meal in the evening (he has 2 jobs), so now he won't be there for any of it. I was going to change the dinner to a lunch so he could still be involved but apparently he's agreed to work the day as overtime because he can't come to the ceremony anyway.
So Aibu to be really hurt and upset that he is now not involved in any of the day? My family are coming a long way to be with me and he can't even be arsed to take one evening off to spend with me on a occasion that is really important to me? He won't be finished the 2nd job until late so won't be able to join us at all
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To be really upset that dp doesn't care about coming to my graduation?
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SharkiraSharkira · 30/10/2017 20:13
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