I had ex-sex with someone who wasn't the best to me when we were together. He was very hot-cold with affection, treated me like someone who couldn't look after themselves, shouted all the time, etc. When it was good it was amazing, but the moods he had made the bad times awful. Anyway we split up over it.
We decided to be friends but both said we loved each other so difficult to maintain that obviously.
We had sex over the weekend. We were both quite drunk. Anyway, I remember thinking at the time that he was being pretty rough (We had "rough" sex when we were together, but it felt like a decision that we both made, both liked it, And we'd cuddle/talk after, he'd also "check" that I was okay during it, that kind of.thing). But when I woke up in the morning i found i had bruises on my face, on my eye socket, and a bloodied nose. I'm really quite upset. The bruises aren't big but they're unsettling. He was also really awful and grumpy in the morning and was in a rush for work so needed to leave, but was asking why I was disorganised and that he needed a shower etc.
I'm really sad. It felt fine in a relationship but feel really used abd feel I've seen a side to him which I really really don't like. Spoke to him after and he feels awful, but I'm really upset. He has text me today saying he is getting therapy and wants to know I'm okay. He said it has made him cry thinking of me upset. But I don't want to reply to him
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**trigger warning sex ** that he shouldn't have done this?
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Pixielemons · 29/10/2017 17:10
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