Hi,
I really hope someone replies as i desperately need to sort this out!
So form e under way voluntarily, ex earns £56000 i earn £20000, i work part time. Have 3 kids (1 together, 1 of mine has a disability, can't increase hours at work due to care of kids)
He has savings not sure of the actual amount yet. His pension worth £47000, mine worth £20000.
I have debts total £16000, due to him being financially abusive and me ending up using credit in my name only throughout the marriage, on pertol, food, christmas, birthdays, car maintenance, etc.
He has said a 60/40 split of equity in house with nothing else 60 to me, equity in house around £110000.
My proposed proposal to him that i would love some views on;
1, 70/30 split in my favour, owing him £33000, when our son leaves fulltime education.
2, child maintenance would be around £300 on his salary, but having worked out my income and outgoings my shortfall is a total £450. I was going to ask for a total of £450 child maintenance/spousal maintenance per month for a duration of the next 7 years until our son reaches 13 so i could then increase my working hours. Then the spousal maintenance would stop and just become child maintenance.
3, I will not ask for any of his savings or pension.
4, He has a decent car he brought new a few years ago and i have an old zafira which has done 14000 miles so wont last much longer.
We have already agreed i will remain in the house and take over the mortgage which i have in principle already, i have also requested to take more out on the mortgage of £15000 to pay off the debt and am uncertain if i should request a greater percentage of the equity to cover this?
I would really appreciate any views negative or positive to help me with this. I will have to self represent in court should it come to this as i cannot afford a solicitor, his parents have already offered to pay however many of thousands he will need for court!
Thanks
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help needed on fair financial settlement, is this fair?
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Confusedmummy2017 · 29/10/2017 11:09
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