I live in London. There are a LOT of schools in our area, as you’d expect for such a populated area. DS is in Year 1.
I’ve now lost track of the number of kids who’ve moved to other schools, have joined from other schools, or are on waiting lists to go elsewhere. It’s like a constant merry-go-round. 2 more kids from his class have just gone to the local “outstanding” school, and this evening I bumped into a parent from his old nursery who’s just moved his kid from the local terribly-good Catholic school to the local terribly-good C of E. I can’t help wondering what all these parents are looking for from a school, and if they’ll ever find it? DS is my one and only, so this is the first exposure to this system and I’m just surprised at the dissatisfaction so many people seem to have. My last contact with school was when my cousins went 20 odd years ago and I don’t remember this level of “are they or aren’t they in the right school” obsession. I may be misremembering but it seemed back then you just went to the nearest school and stayed there.
Something about all this movement also makes me feel a bit insecure -like maybe I’m missing something. I think our school seems ok - a bit disorganised at times, but teachers seem nice, DS is reasonably happy, has made friends and is making what seems to be decent progress. They are relaxed about homework, which I quite like. Communication isn’t the best, but the teachers have been happy to speak with me when I’ve had questions. My one small gripe is that the curriculum with its endless phonics, writing and maths seems rather boring for this age group but my understanding was that this is more to do with national curriculum than local schools.
There is also a fair bit of grizzling at the school gates about lack of communication, the fact that the teachers didn’t introduce themselves at the beginning of term, the fact that they “don’t really seem to care”. I have a different impression, but are my standards just too low - or are theirs too high - or is this typical of local areas where there’s lots of choice?
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
AIBU?
To not understand why kids in our area keep moving schools?
45 replies
hilbobaggins · 28/10/2017 00:00
OP posts:
2ndSopranos ·
28/10/2017 08:33
This reply has been deleted
Message withdrawn at poster's request.
Don’t want to miss threads like this?
Weekly
Sign up to our weekly round up and get all the best threads sent straight to your inbox!
Log in to update your newsletter preferences.
You've subscribed!
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.