So I took my DS (aged 5) out to meet a school friend today at the local park. They are both in reception but did nursery together as well.
Well it was a fricking nightmare from start to finish. This kid was so boisterous and rough. He threw mud and leaves in DS's face. Kicked him. Hit him. Pushed, shoved. They did roly polys and then he jumped on DS's back, shoved his head. They were climbing up the banks and using tree roots to help them up and he was pulling DS's hands off the roots. There were more incidents.
The mum said nothing instead just looking at me and giving out bullshit phrases over and over again about how boys will be boys and they need to let off steam, they're still trying to figure out their own boundaries etc etc.
I did step in a couple of times, "no kicking, that's not kind!" And "stop pulling now and let DS climb up, if one of you falls from there it could be very dangerous" but I didn't step in too much even when DS was saying stop it, I don't want you to do that.
What kind of balance should there be? Should I have stepped in more? Feeling crap as obviously DS needs to know I'll stick up for him but at the same time I didn't want to piss off the other mum (although if the tables were turned I would have stepped in a lot more than she did and wouldn't have tolerated that kind of behaviour) and I obviously don't feel I could step in much more.
What would you do in this scenario?
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ILoveMyMonkey · 27/10/2017 21:45
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