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To suddenly find DH really annoying and smelly

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halloweenpumpkincametotea Thu 26-Oct-17 20:50:17

Don't know what's happened. I love him. We've had a great relationship for the last 10 years. But for the last week I can barely look at him. He chews loudly, farts, is sweaty, is very very boring, always moans and looks so miserable.

What the hell is going on???? Why am i suddenly seeing all this stuff and not the gorgeous man I love? I just want to get back to how I used to feel about him up til last week! He hasn't changed - pretty sure his chewing style etc.. have always been the same, but suddenly it's jut all really annoying me and turning me off sad

Has this happened to anyone else? Will I click back to my normal self soon?

Help! (I am genuinely actually a bit stressed about this. We have dc's and I do love him)

QuiteLikely5 Thu 26-Oct-17 20:51:34

Has your head been turned by a colleague/friend etc

Santawontbelong Thu 26-Oct-17 20:51:38

Ten year reality check?

JonSnowsWhore Thu 26-Oct-17 20:51:45

Honeymoon phase is over I do believe!

PurplePillowCase Thu 26-Oct-17 20:52:07

are you pregnant?

BamburyFuriou3 Thu 26-Oct-17 20:52:10


confusedandemployed Thu 26-Oct-17 20:52:15

Are you pregnant?

jaffajiffy Thu 26-Oct-17 20:52:37

Might you be pregnant?

iklboo Thu 26-Oct-17 20:52:59

You're not heading for peri menopausal age are you? I can barely stand to be in the same room as DH some days.

BamburyFuriou3 Thu 26-Oct-17 20:53:02

To add, DH always became unbearable to me as a first pregnancy sign. Followed a week later by throwing up every evening....

MayFayner Thu 26-Oct-17 20:53:18

I thought pregnant too.

JonSnowsWhore Thu 26-Oct-17 20:53:34

7 year itch. Although I tend to get it after around 3 years thlgrin

SandSnakeofDorne Thu 26-Oct-17 20:53:39

Has he always been sweaty and smelly? Because it's pretty normal not to find that attractive.

Fitzsimmons Thu 26-Oct-17 20:54:03


Liara Thu 26-Oct-17 20:54:35

Are you pg again? Or possibly menopausal?

Hormones can play havoc with this kind of thing.

I never had pmt before the dc, then after the dc for a few years I had it so bad dh and the dc called it 'hyde week' - I found them all awful to be around and everything they did pissed me off.

Now it's passed and I like them all the time again!

halloweenpumpkincametotea Thu 26-Oct-17 20:55:38

Oh god! So many 'are you pregnant's?!!!

I don't think so!!!

But I have been having hot flushes and tidying like crazy - maybe I'm hitting menopause! (Although time of month a bit late - so the pregnant question nagging me now!!!!)

2017SoFarSoGood Thu 26-Oct-17 20:55:52

JonSnow that did make me laugh.

Rose covered glasses need cleaned?

BrutusMcDogface Thu 26-Oct-17 20:55:55

Oooh yes I came on here to ask if you're pregnant, and have been beaten by many posters! grin

HemanOrSheRa Thu 26-Oct-17 20:55:57

You're not heading for peri menopausal age are you? I can barely stand to be in the same room as DH some days. You beat me to it ilkboo

Ttbb Thu 26-Oct-17 20:56:10

I get really turned off when I'm pissed off by things my DH has done.

ItsLikeRainOnYourWeddingDay Thu 26-Oct-17 20:56:12

Preg test pronto !

Doubletrouble42 Thu 26-Oct-17 20:56:31

joining in with are you pregnant? I was repelled by my oh when I was pregnant . And I really love him!

LindyHemming Thu 26-Oct-17 20:56:34

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

stellacat123 Thu 26-Oct-17 20:58:41

Go get a preg test now & let us know!

Branleuse Thu 26-Oct-17 20:59:00

pre-menstrual? I have a tracker app on my phone that gives me a weeks warning of my period, so i know not to dump dp

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