Apart from child related ones.
My ex and I have a horrific history. He has been so abusive that me and the children previously had to live in a refuge for a year just to get free of him. Now after a long legal process he has been granted time with them every other weekend for which I do drop offs and picks up from a public place (because the thought of him standing on my doorstep scares the shit out of me).
We have recently agreed that he will take the children out for tea midweek and again drop offs and pick ups are going ok generally. He hasn't tried to intimidate me and I am becoming less nervous around him. This apparently means we're practically best mates and he's asked me if I could do him a favour and go to the chemist to pick up some medication he gets on prescription. I was very much wtf?! And eventually managed to splutter "no I don't think that's appropriate do you?" He seemed shocked and clearly wasn't happy.
In recent weeks he's sent me a YouTube link to a song that is "really beautiful" offered to babysit for me "whenever" and enquired on my health (longterm condition) he didn't give a fuck when we were a couple and he was violent towards me
I guess I'm wondering do people do favours like this for an ex? Is it normal? Is that why he asked me because he thinks it's normal or is he trying to play me? I don't think I was unreasonable to say no to him. We are not and never can be friends not ever.
Sorry this is long btw I didn't want to dripfeed and hope I haven't.
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NoFuckingWay · 25/10/2017 17:33
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