So for a while me and my OH have been looking to move out. We've been to view some stunning new builds near us and have fallen in love with one. Both were so excited to finally have a house as we currently live in staff accommodation, in a small and not very nice flat.
My issue is he just dropped this morning about how he hopes a job doesn't come up within our company too far away as it'll make him sad to leave our house as it looks like it's going to be amazing. Leaving me (i think) understandably angry.
I understand that if a promotion comes up at a different location he might want to take it, we have over 100 locations across the U.K. and sometimes the best jobs means moving.. but that's why we weren't moving out. We pay £100 a month all in, bills, council tax everything with staff accom, and it helps him progress with his career. So I don't moan about the dingy flat, I don't complain about wanting my OWN home because although I like my job, it's not a career and I'm more fussed on saving up to start my family soon (different story altogether) but I prioritise his career cause it is what's best for us both in the long run
But why suggest moving out? Why talk about settling down here? Take me to house viewings.. let me fall in love with a house and then say that if a job comes up we will move back into staff accom and rent it out.. if we get a house I want to settle down, start out family, and he agreed to that but with the condition it all can move if he does??
AIBU? I do support his career but I want my home to be my home... long term...
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phoeberosemoores · 24/10/2017 11:08
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