There’s a very long backstory but in a nutshell my sister and I have never gotten on. I can no longer bear her.
When my DD was born things got so
much worse and my sister along with my controlling parents were horrible to me. My DD also had life saving surgery at a couple of weeks old and they all made a stressful situation so much worse. Calling me, shouting down the phone at me because I didn’t want them to visit, I too had just been through surgery. Childish text messages from them. I can’t look at any of them the same, I just feel so bitter.
My sister met DD once and I decided I wouldn’t make any effort to see her after that.
Next month is my DDs first birthday and we’re doing a small gathering for our nearest and dearest. My parents are all about keeping up appearances and have told me that she HAS to be there otherwise the family will ask why. The family know we’ve never gotten on but for some reason my parents bullshit and won’t tell them that we actually don’t speak anymore.
I know that if I don’t give an invite to my sister I’ll get weeks of phone calls, “you’re making me ill with stress” comments, Dad pretending he’s short of breath on the phone and saying his chest hurts so that I usually give in because I can’t be arsed with the drama.
If I send the invite she won’t come anyway, it’s just a weird power thing on my parents part. But I absolutely do not want to even invite her, I want to celebrate my DDs first year properly, especially as things were so stressful at the start.
AIBU in not sending the bloody invite?
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To not invite my sister?
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bluebellhills · 23/10/2017 19:52
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