I have a battered up 7 seater car. Had to have lots of repairs. And I borrowed money from ex husband to pay for huge repair bill. I paid him back but he s always going on about getting rid of it. I know it will continue to cost more. I am broke with three kids. He is volatile. Sometimes very friendly and supportive, then he isn't. I never quite know where I am with him. We divorced because of it. He just contacted me about him buying it for me. The car is a Skoda Fabia, ten years old. Hardly any mileage. Excellent condition. I don t even know if it's big enough (car experts please?) Instead of feeling happy I feel wary. I burst into tears when I put the phone down. I feel like I should take the offer but I feel sad bit, well suffocated. We ( me and the kids) live in a house that he owns. I used to be completely independent and now, because of lack of support/ money/opportunity I am not. It makes me feel so uncomfortable and out of control. But beggars can't be choosers so.....
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AIBU to refuse the gift of a car from my ex?
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Barkybarkynutnut · 22/10/2017 17:01
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