Short back story: recently my ex and I broke up. There was a lot we both needed to sort in our lives and some time apart to do so before revisiting getting back together will be good for us. Part of my issues was lack of motivation and letting myself go. He never ever commented on my weight or anything like that but the gym is a big thing for him and he spends time there a lot and expressed once how he'd love it if I could do it with him as it'd be extra encouragement.
I have always felt conscious about my body since letting myself go a little bit over the past few years and I can understand (even though my ex never even gave me the impression about weight loss, it was more about the fitness) how partners men or women get put off when we put weight on.
I'm wondering if anyone has ever lost weight and got into shape to impress their partner, save their relationship or win someone back? I think getting into shape would be a positive step in working on rebuilding our relationship.
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Weightloss for love
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KissesAX · 22/10/2017 16:39
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