I would like some independent opinions.
I have a few month old baby. Baby is bf but has expressed bottles a few times a week and maybe one formula feed every month or 6 weeks.
Baby is fed ok demand and doing well.
First baby.
Hasn't been an easy ride, Hcp mentioned not an easy baby. Doesn't sleep and feeds a lot.
However things improving and beginning to sleep much better and feed a bit less.
At my parents for a week as they live far away and we had an event to attend today where both me and baby dad had jobs. I've been pretty worried about this event simply due to logistics and it being the first big thing we've done.
Whilst at my parents sleep has been worse and baby is unsettled.
Today my dad suggests he thinks I'm overly anxious I lift the baby up too often and attend to him as soon as he makes a noise and when was I planning to finish bf so baby would sleep and baby dad could do night feeds.
This was all expressed as concern for my mental health. However aibu to be really hurt by the subtext that I'm not doing mothering really well. I think this might be the sort of comment I can never forget.
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Goldfingers · 21/10/2017 22:37
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