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To ask you who you secretly fancy in RL?

212 replies

Midge1978 · 21/10/2017 21:50

Obviously we wouldn’t act on it but just for fun!

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Neverender · 21/10/2017 21:55

Tom Hardy - obviously.

And, less obviously, David Couthard, Jay-Z and deffo Justin Beiber. Sorry and I’ve definirely outed myself to any real friends!!

Midge1978 · 21/10/2017 21:55

What about in RL? Eg not celebrities?!

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catiinbo0ts · 21/10/2017 21:58

My very elderly GP Blush

BishopstonFaffing · 21/10/2017 21:58

My friend. It's excruciating.

catiinbo0ts · 21/10/2017 21:58

Doctor not grandparent FFS

catiinbo0ts · 21/10/2017 22:00

Also the old man that was responsible for The Titanic sinking (in the film)

Floellabumbags · 21/10/2017 22:00

Bloke who works in the local hardware shop (independent, proper old school shop that sells everything)

catiinbo0ts · 21/10/2017 22:02

I clearly have Old-Man-Fancy-Syndrome as my mate tells me

To ask you who you secretly fancy in RL?
thefirstmrsrochester · 21/10/2017 22:02

My friend.

MummaTwinkleToes · 21/10/2017 22:03

My new dr but blaming it on post pregnancy hormones. Blush

Doyouremember · 21/10/2017 22:04

My old manager

BulletFox · 21/10/2017 22:05

No-one really?! Bit sad.

JeffreyArchersUnderpants · 21/10/2017 22:05

My line manager.

Firenight · 21/10/2017 22:06

My friend. Been the case for years. Nothing will ever happen though and nor should it.

mamaduckbone · 21/10/2017 22:06

One of the dads at the school where I teach Blush

drinkswineoutofamug · 21/10/2017 22:07

A friend

Horses4 · 21/10/2017 22:08

One of my daughter's medical consultants. He has the most lovely accent.... 😳

BottleBeach · 21/10/2017 22:08

I fancy a man who’s part of a group I sing with every week. When we first met I felt like we had a connection... lots of eye contact, and he seemed to single me out to come and talk to. I can feel my pulse quicken when I find myself standing next to him while we’re singing. But I really love going to the group so I was anxious not to show how much I fancy him in case I was wrong and ended up embarrassing myself and feeling like I couldn’t go back. He hasn’t seemed as interested lately, and now I tell whether I was wrong all along; whether he did like me but now he’s got to know me more he’s gone off me; or whether I’ve been so successful at acting cool that he’s now also pretending not to like me because he thinks I’m not into him. Ridiculous. I’m 38!

Midge1978 · 21/10/2017 22:09

Wow can’t believe how many fancy a friend! Must make things a little awkward!

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BottleBeach · 21/10/2017 22:10
  • I can’t tell
Moanyoldcow · 21/10/2017 22:11

My obstetrician! Hugely inappropriate but harmless enough.

FuckerDoodleDo · 21/10/2017 22:11

Mine is really embarrassing. Not a RL person but not a ‘celebrity’ as such. A YouTuber who is a female to male trans person - I have the hugest crush him. And before anyone jumps I’m not embarrassed because he is trans but because I’m old enough to be his mother Blush

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Midge1978 · 21/10/2017 22:12

Mine was one of my old managers. I had the biggest crush on him, just seeing him or hearing his voice gave me butterflies. He was married with kids though and so am I!

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ilovechocolates · 21/10/2017 22:15

My best friend, who’s male and gay. Excruciatingly is not the word!

thenightsky · 21/10/2017 22:17

The bloke who is in one of my local facebook groups for a certain car make (subaru). He's fixed my car for me. He must be early 30s max and I'm over 50 Blush.

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