DH and I have had a big barney this morning. He has this ridiculous need to put loads of his crap on the dining table (which is in our lounge at the back), so when we have anyone over, they obviously sit in the lounge and as soon as they walk in, there’s see a big pile of shit on the table (things like papers, bills, folders, battery packs, wires, headphones, money, tape measures etc).
After 3 weeks of it being there I asked him to move it this morning. Apparently I’m a hypocrite because in our bedroom, I leave my dressing gown and pyjamas hanging on the door, I leave my straighteners and make up on the dressing table, and I have a few bits of clothes scattered about - which are work clothes such as tights or cardigans. Most are things I actually use continuosly throughout the week and then tidy up on a Friday evening. He doesn’t touch his table stuff, it can be the same untouched pile for months.
In my view a bit of a mess in the bedrooms is fine as no guest will be going up there to see it, and further more we relax downstairs and it’s hard to do that surrounded by junk. He says it’s the same.
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Worriedaboutnail · 21/10/2017 16:01
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