We get married next year. Small venue with service and a meal followed by disco and a buffet. Around 50 for day, up to 120 for night.
I have a large family. Bil is my sisters husband. I can not stand him. Neither can my dp. Nor can my other sister. He is a complete and utter knobhead.
He and my dsis split up about 2 years ago after he cheated on her. She left him, made a new life for her and the dcs. Dnephew is currently going through a tough time. He is being assessed for ADHD and some other stuff. Bil has been involved and as a consequence of dnephews problems dsis has agreed to try again.
I think she is making a massive mistake. But it's absolutely her choice.
Bil and dsis still live separately. They are on again, off again, on again, off again.
If I invite him he will be loud and obnoxious and lairy for the whole day. He will get drunk, be rude to people and try and be the centre of attention. He is like an overgrown toddler hyped up on haribo and overtired.
I really don't want him to come. But as mu dsis 'd' h I have to invite him don't I?
They are currently on again. If I didn't have to get everyone elses invitations out I would wait until they were off again, then send her an invite.
Please tell me some weird wedding etiquette thing that means you don't have to invite cheating bastard bils as it's bad karma or something.
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Frouby · 21/10/2017 12:15
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