I'm a bit annoyed this morning and just wondering if IBU
DD (12) has 2 really good friends. They've done a few sleepovers at the other girls houses and I'd tried to arrange one for tonight with both girls coming - reluctantly as 3 would be a real squash in DD's room. I've had one of the friends a few times and she is fine as they go to sleep at a decent time etc but not the other.
Anyway turned out the other girl couldn't come anyway due to other plans so just DD and the girl who'd been before.
So I got a text from the other girls mum this morning saying that their plans had changed and as her DD was "free to do as she pleased" did my DD, and her friend want to go to an activity with her DD tonight - paid activity in another town so they'd be away for 3 hours.
I said no as if they'd gone then I would have felt obliged to have other girl for tea and a sleepover after all. Since the plans were made DH had his shift changed to night shift so will be sleeping tomorrow morning so 3 would just be too noisy.
Also a bit miffed that she didn't just say to her DD that the plans were made now - we have another date in for her to come for a sleepover. And surely if you know that kids are having a sleepover at one house you don't then try to arrange something extra on the day just because your DD is suddenly free.
I think the other mum is p'd off with me as she just texted back "never mind".
I'm really not good with last minute changes of plan so it might just be me ......
And I feel bad that the girl who is coming will have wanted to go as the only plans we have for tonight are watching Strictly ......
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Sleepover hijack attempt
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BirdyBedtime · 21/10/2017 10:03
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