This has come to a head today as it’s half term next week.
My DS is 13 (year 9). I work FT so I’m not around during school holidays but I work one mile away from home, so if there’s a problem I can go straight home.
Anyway DS is constantly asking for money. Today he text me after school asking me to put money on his Osper card so he could buy drinks etc while he’s with his friends. I said no and told him to be home at 6.30 for his tea. Tomorrow he wants to go to the fair and wants £30 for that. No doubt on Saturday he’ll want a tenner for drinks and food while he’s with his friends and the same again on Sunday. We live off the beaten track so once he’s out he doesn’t want to come home for lunch or tea. His curfew is 8pm and I’m not cooking again at 8pm just because he wants to stay out with his mates.
I’ve got no doubt that he’ll ask me for at least £10 a day next week while he’s off school.
I’ve told him to stop asking for money all the time and he agrees and then the following day he’s at it again!
I’m fed up with it to be honest. I don’t want him to be thirsty or hungry but I simply cannot afford to give him £10 a day for food.
His step dad gave him £40 last Saturday and he blew it in a day on cinema/food/drinks/train fare.
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ElasticatedJeans · 19/10/2017 16:33
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