This is so outing but oh well...
4 years ago I had my first dc and when she was a newborn me and my older sister fell out. It was a stupid row and normally we would have patched things up but her controlling bf got involved and sent me essay long texts about what I'd done wrong even though he wasn't involved in the row and eventually with me struggling with a new baby and couldn't be arsed with the drama I just said I'd had enough of trying to make up and it never happening (it went on for months) so I said just leave it, I blocked her on everything after her bf removed me from fb and kept sending me messages and I said to her to ask him to stay out of it and it was all a bit stupid really.
Anyway two years after this my younger sister said if I don't make up with older one she will cut me off. I said I that's her choice as it's unlikely to happen now. Two years on and both sisters no contact the younger sister has suddenly text me asking for money for my mums birthday present literally status what present my mum wants asking for money and nothing else. Every year without fail they've hogged Christmas, my mums birthday and Mother's Day and arranged things with all three of them to exclude me from spending any of these times with my mum. My mum thinks hats ok as well so I've also given up there.
I am very happy without them in my life and now realise how toxic our relationships were in the first place so aibu to simply block her or would it be better to reply. I don't want any contact with them and after years of counselling believe I'm now better off without knowing them. Sad but I can't change the family dynamics.
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chocolatetulip · 18/10/2017 13:27
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