I might get a pasting here but I just need to know if AIBU.
DD is 9 and goes to a local school. Lots of the kids are from surrounding towns and villages...so not many of her classmates live nearby.
There's a boy from her class about 5 doors down.
The boys' Mum, last year, initiated a few trips to the local lake which is very close to my house. She has to pass my house to get there from hers.
I went along with DD mainly because DD is very sociable and wanted to.
Anyway...the Mother is a bit odd somehow..can't put my finger on it, she seems sometimes to be under the influence of perhaps some sort of drug ...she doesn't smell like alcohol.
One day last year, she arrived with her son (and it's always without warning at teatime) and banged on the door, asking if we could go to the lake.
I said I was busy and she offered to take DD.
I agreed as I felt slightly on the spot and dd was nagging. In hindsight I shouldn't allow myself to be pressured like that.
When she returned with DD an hour later, there was an odd man with them...he loitered in the background and the Mum never introduced me or anything. He sort of glowered at me unsmiling.
She dropped DD off, then walked off with her son and the man back towards her own house. I asked DD "Who was that man?" and DD said "I don't know...she just met him by the lake"
So though it was unclear if she was a friend of his or not I felt a bit weird about her then...I had anyway but that cemented it.
Then last week she bumped into DH and made a disparaging comment about our older DD! Well...cheeky cow! She said something about my older DD"s dress sense as she's a tad experimental (teenager!)
So I thought, that's it. No more truck with her...DD never asks to call for the boy or if he can come over, so she's not that keen...
Since last week, she's banged on my door three times asking do we want to go to the lake and when I say no, we're busy, she offers to take DD...and I have to fucking say "No, it's not convenient"
Tonight (it's night here) she banged again and I opened the door and she looked at me and said "Don't tell me! You can't come!" in this odd voice!
So I said "That's right, I can't. Bye!" and shut the door.
What's with her!?
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AIBU?
To wish this woman would stop knocking at my door?
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MrsOverTheRoad · 16/10/2017 13:27
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