Did this person invite themselves to a wedding?

[KindergartenKop]

So, person A received an invite to a family wedding. Person A mentions this to person B who claims to not have been invited. Another family member has also been invited, let's call them C. A week later, B assumes that a mistake has been made so uses the code on C's invite to RSVP on their wedding website.

Was B being a cheeky fucker?

[Leeds2]

Yes!

[NoKidsTwoCats]

Yes. No invite = not invited.

[GeillisTheWitch]

Yes B was a CF and if pulling this kind of stunt is typical of them I can see why they weren't invited.

[Yoplate]

Yes! That's so fucking weird. Also presumably cohabiting family members to give acces to invitation with code?

[FluffyMcCloud]

A code on a wedding website to RSVP? Wow it's all changed since I got married!
But yes, cheeky. You can't just assume a mistake has been made!

[Leeds2]

Do the bride/groom know that B has responded in place of C? Is C intending to go?

[Twickerhun]

Sounds extraordinarily cheeky

[Caspiana]

B is taking the piss. They didn’t get an invitation so they weren’t invited.

If B thought it was an error they should have politely clarified with bride and groom not unilaterally decided to RSVP to an event they had not received an invitation to.

[EdmundCleverClogs]

Sound like some intriguing cheeky fuckery going on. What's the full story then?

[LoveProsecco]

Wow! What a bizarre thing to do

[NoCryLilSoftSoft]

Has the wedding already happened? Surely if B used C's code then all they have done is confirm that C will be attending.

[KindergartenKop]

B is parent of A and C and doesn't have cf tendencies thus far. Although I suspect both C and B have Asperger's so they might not have realised it's inappropriate.

C can still rsvp for themselves because you have to type your name in.

I don't know what the bride and groom think, maybe it was a mistake!

[KindergartenKop]

Wedding isn't until next summer so this is going to be a slow burner!

[seven201]

Whaaaaat??? That is extreme cf behaviour! You should tip off the bride and groom. Would you have expected the mum to be invited?

[seven201]

*or dad

[NoCryLilSoftSoft]

How will C be able to confirm twice? Surely the system will flag up that the code has already been used and won't allow a double confirmation. Otherwise what is the point of a code?

[TheweewitchRoz]

I've never heard of a code to RSVP by - how does that even work?

[Yoplate]

Has your mum/dad had a falling out with parents of the B&G?

[TheAntiBoop]

I assume it's a code to log on to the wedding website - not a code specific to the invitee

Are the parents closely related to B or G? I can imagine it would be a bit odd to invite cousins but not aunt and uncle unless there's more to the story

[NoCryLilSoftSoft]

Ahh, yes that makes more sense antiboop!

[KindergartenKop]

It's more like a password and then you type your name and the no of people you are rsvp ing for.

Given A and C were invited, it's weird that B wasn't invited TBH. Groom is related to them all and was invited to A's wedding, along with groom's parents and brother.

[Sparkletastic]

Yes B is a CF. Either person A or C needs to let bride or groom know (whichever they are related / closest to) what has happened and then deal with CF accordingly.

[KindergartenKop]

B is aunt by marriage to groom. We aren't particularly close though. But also the family isn't huge.

[dameglittersparkles]

Is this your wedding OP?