I am probably being very unreasonable and selfish, and am completely prepared to be told I am so. DH has been offered his dream job starting in the middle of January. It's a perfect job for him, he was head hunted for it and it means a very significant pay increase. My issue is its 300 miles away, and my due date is in the middle of December. We also have two DDs aged 11 and 4.
I don't want to move for loads of reasons, mainly having a tiny baby when moving or being very heavily pregnant, but also that DD1 has only just managed to settle into her current school, and I don't know how well she'd do moving schools again. I don't know if I'd be able to get a job there, and I currently earn more than DH, and my wages now are still more than his salary at the new job. We also live very near my parents, and they look after DDs a lot.
DH likes his current job, but finds it unfulfilling, but is okay with not moving if I really don't want to.
The reason I feel so selfish is because we lived abroad for 8 years so that I could do my dream job. DH hated it the entire time, and it got to the point that it was either we moved back to the UK or he left, which is my we're here. I feel like I owe it to him to move for his dream job, especially since it's not nearly so far away, and is only a 2 year contract. We'll also be much closer to his parents, but still 1.5 hours away.
I'm being really selfish aren't I?
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FleurDelacourr · 14/10/2017 21:59
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