Hi Everyone,
So my living situation is, Myself, DP, DD and house mate. Aside from bedroom belongings myself and DP have furnished the property ourselves.
It has come to light that our housemate has started a new relationship which I am most pleased for her (its about time) however she is dating a mutual friend and work colleague.
They had been staying here the odd night a week which wasn't an issue, all was fine and now shes here all the time!!!
She swans around the house like she lives here, eats my food (which she doesn't replace) and walks around in her dressing gown which is making my partner uncomfortable.
I never get the opportunity to talk to my housemate alone as they are always together and her GF reads her texts so cant approach the topic without her finding out.
I dont want to be mean but I dont want to wake up to her every morning and see her last thing at night, this is my home and I feel like its being invaded.
Today I sought refuge with my DD at my mothers as I didn't want to come home and be around them, waited for them to leave and returned. I shouldn't have to feel that way or put my DD through it but dont know how to go about it without hurting someone's feelings...
Normally I'm a stone cold but this is a delicate situation we are all on the tenancy and pay a third towards all bills we are stuck in a contract until the end of May 2018 and dont want my housemate thinking she isn't welcome at all (shes a bit like a spoilt child and locks herself away in her bedroom if she doesnt like being told) just not all the time.
Need a little help from someone on the outside.. Any suggestions???
Thanks
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Sw33tP2388 · 14/10/2017 20:33
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