To be fed up of sexual fetishists on here?

[brasty]

So many threads at the moment that are obviously posters looking for wank fodder. Including disgustingly a fair number to do with children. So fed up of these. And so fed up of so many staying up for several days even though they are reported.

[Coconutspongexo]

YANBU

They're ridiculous & people feed into it giving far too much info.

[insancerre]

You're not wrong
But I don't know why so many people share so much of their parsons information with strangers
It's pretty obvious that regular posters aren't really interested in what knickers you wear, whether you wear any under pyjamas or if your teenage daughter wears tights
But still people answer

[brasty]

Yes. I fell for one as well, and now just feel sick. Involved a tiny child.

[GerdaLovesLili]

Yes. It's making me quite terse.

[brasty]

And if you want sex tips, there is a big thing called google out there.

[Iwanttobe8stoneagain]

Eh? Completely missed that. But any sexualisation of you kids is sickening

[brasty]

Yes insancerre if a stranger in real life asked what kind of knickers you wore, or even worse what kind of knickers your 7 year old DD wears, would you tell them? Of course not. So don't do it on here.

[brasty]

And periods and leaking is a sexual fetish for some men.

[Allthelightsgoout]

I agree. I also worry about the ones (there's been a few recently) encouraging women to describe their experiences of sexual assault or abuse.

[GerdaLovesLili]

The repetition of unlikely-sounding posts (about children's toiletting, underwear, uniforms, accidental nudity, pee, poo or embarrassing tampon situations for example) is horrifying, as is lots of other posters' desire to keep sharing intimate stuff without thinking why they're sharing it.

[insancerre]

There's one at the moment about a child wetting herself at school

[brasty]

They are sharing naively thinking they are helping a woman. I have done it naively. But it is beyond a joke now. So so many sexual fetishists threads that it is obvious MN is a target for so many for so many of them.
In many other places on the net, they would either be quickly banned, or shouted down. Here their threads sometimes run for days, any anyone trying to point out the obvious gets banned for troll hunting.

[sinceyouask]

Yanbu at all, it's vile.

[ZeppelinBend]

YANBU, there really needs to be a clamp down on what sort of thing is mentioned with regards to kids especially. There's a lot to be said that on some fetish websites you would be banned to mention children with regards to their underwear etc but you can do here. Maybe that's why the weirdos come to parenting websites to get their kicks.

[brasty]

And people here are talking about real kids, not imaginary ones.

[WhatALoadOfOldBollocks]

Personally I couldn't give a shit if I'm feeding a fetishist if what I post helps other women too. So I will gladly discuss mentrual cup use, sexual stuff, etc as as far as I'm concerned, sharing information is a big part of what MN is about. Sod the pervs.

[insancerre]

Blimey
Just reported that thread and mumsnet are on it already

[VikingVolva]

'In many other places on the net, they would either be quickly banned, or shouted down.'

If you attempt shouting down, you are the one who will be facing the suspension/ban, if accounts of MNHQ's actions over the last couple of months have any truth to them.

[PortiaCastis]

Yes an I'm increasingly appalled at the amount of posters who share details of their dds underwear. You wouldn't tell a randomer in the street what colour your dds knickers are so FFS don't overshare on here, some things are better unsaid even if you're trying to help.
Also my dds periods are her business and nobody else's and she'll ask me for help if she needs it

[MrsOverTheRoad]

Brasty I don't think the thread is one of those threads. I know the thread you mean by the way.

[brasty]

Yes I know. Which is why sexual fetishists are flocking to MN. They don't get shouted down, because that leads to those shouting getting banned. And they often don't get deleted by mods.

[AccidentalyRunToWindsor]

I had no idea that was a thing people did.

Ugh, vile.

[brasty]

MrsOverTheRoad I really hope not. But I think it is and I feel a bit sick now.

[Shockers]

I must be terribly naive; I posted on the toileting thread.

[Goldfishshoals]

What I never understand is the number of people who can work out that an op might not be genuine, but then think that all the replies must be literally true stories about actual children, who despite being entirely annonymous and potentially nonexistent are somehow harmed by sharing 'intimate' details.

I agree trolls are annoying. I will never agree that announcing my daughter's pants are purple, when you don't know if I even have a daughter, is somehow a terrible/horrific attack on her privacy.