My long hair has been dd’s ‘comfort blanket’ since she was a newborn. She’d twirl it through her fingers as I fed her and it was really sweet.
She’s now 15 months old. We co-sleep and she won’t fall asleep unless I’m lying next to her (both for naps and bedtime) and I have to lie with my face next to hers so that she can play with my hair until she goes to sleep. If I move away she cries. This wouldn’t be too bad except for the fact that she pulls really hard, especially as she’s got bigger and stronger! She kind of grabs a handful, pulls her fingers down through the hair then re-grabs and pulls again, repeatedly. She especially likes to go for the hair around my hairline, and pulls so hard she snaps the hairs. It’s really unpleasant and my hair’s thin and broken enough through a combination of postnatal hair loss and being anaemic for ages. Tying my hair back doesn’t make a difference as she still goes for the hairline. It’s even worse if she has an unsettled night for whatever reason, as it then goes on all night which obviously stops me sleeping and results in a very sore scalp the next day.
I really don’t know what to do - if I move away she cries, because I’m taking away her ‘comfort blanket’ so that seems really cruel! But I’m not going to have any hair left at this rate.
What do I do?! I’ve tried actual comfort blankets (she was given a few of the bunny ones) but she’s not interested.
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Specificbreeze · 11/10/2017 21:27
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