I have a child, almost 7yrs old. Who has only been invited on 2 Playdates after school (Last year in y1) one of these was a reciprocal playdate. (Has also always been invited to class parties. However, these seemed to be less last year. Assume a birthday treat with a small group of closer friends invited).
He has friends at school but no really close friends. Also goes to a few clubs a week outside of school and happily plays with the children there. Some from school, others not.
He doesn't ask for friends to come round (I work full time and it's difficult). Therefore, I'm unsure if it's because it's not something I encourage or talk about.
At this age is this unusual? I don't get to do drop offs or collections so only on a smile/hello basis with some of the other Parents.
I have heard other parents in each year group arranging Playdates. At this age is it generally still arranged with the parents that are friends with each other?
Is it something I should be encouraging more? For closer friendships? As he'll still happily playing with some children in his year, as well as yr1 and reception children. This will unfortunately have to change when he moves to Juniors next year.
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Playdates · 11/10/2017 12:59
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