I'm a SAHM, and accept that the lions share of the housework should fall to me. This is less of a DH complaints by the way, and more of a DC one.
Every single day I do the same routine, after DC are at school. Make beds, sort clothes, clear down bed side tables, pick up and hoover bedroom floor. Same in the living room. Clean the bathroom, start the first wash load, then tackle dishes and the counter tops, floors.
Thing is it takes so long. Toys and books are left across the floor. Bedroom surfaces are piled with items they couldn't be bothered to put away. Clean washing that I'd previously folded and put at the end of the boys beds (I hang dd's for her), are messed up where they just slept with them there. Glasses and cups left where ever.
In the living room, toys are left in piles from that morning. On the table, their breakfast stuff. Once I get into the kitchen, sides left messy, rubbish on the floor etc. Empty packets in the fridge.
I clean this all, just recently I find myself fed up.
My youngest has just started school, and I can't ever get the projects I want to, ie retouching paint, putting nice pictures up, organising etc as by the time I've done all that, I'm sick of anything house related.
Today, Ive just lazed and binge watched, as I can't stand it any longer. Of course, I've now got it all to do anyway, now that I've done the school run. AIBU to make them do it, as a SAHM? Is this usual?
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SouthernNorthernGirl · 10/10/2017 15:53
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