My DM asked his morning what DD (18m) would like for Xmas. DD is absolutely over-run with toys, I'm struggling to store all the ones we have (god bless Ikea Kallax units!) She's also already got garden toys (swing, slide etc) and we're buying her a toy kitchen for her present from us. She really doesn't need anything.
I said she was welcome to buy whatever she liked but please no more toys unless they are small things like books, stickers, colouring things etc. I did also say that as we buy most of DDs clothes from supermarkets (were on one income) that around Xmas as she'll be moving into the next size clothes I'll be looking to get her a few treat-y outfits. Nothing extravagant. So some vouchers for places like Next, John Lewis, M&P etc would be great as I could get her all few nice bits from there in the NY sales.
DM got all huffy and said she wouldn't give vouchers for me to clothe her. Said she'd just give money to be out in DDs bank account but that it wasn't to be used to buy clothes. Also that she would choose some clothes for DD herself.
Problem is (and I wouldn't say it because I wouldn't want to hurt her feelings) but DM buys clothes that are completely impractical and that DD never wears. It's such a waste. Flouncy dresses and the like - she mostly wears trousers and tops, comfy and practical things that wash easily.
I wouldn't use Xmas money to buy clothes, it would go in her account. We never touch money that's given to her, it just gets banked. But my DM made me feel completely out of order by suggesting vouchers for some nice outfits! Is it?
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timeforbedsleepyhead80 · 09/10/2017 14:15
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