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2ndSopranos Mon 09-Oct-17 08:21:15

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strawberryblondebint Mon 09-Oct-17 08:26:58

God how annoying. I totally get where you are coming from. But ... don’t cancel the holiday. Go without him. And let the tv babysit the poorly one. If I was you I would go internet shopping ASAP and have a lovely bath

2ndSopranos Mon 09-Oct-17 08:28:35

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2ndSopranos Mon 09-Oct-17 08:29:40

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Caenea Mon 09-Oct-17 08:41:24

No don't cancel to spite him.

Go without him to spite him. Take your best friend or mother or whoever. It's his own sodding fault.

strawberryblondebint Mon 09-Oct-17 08:42:08

Cancelling won’t spite him. Going without him should piss him off nicely

GaryGilmoresEyes Mon 09-Oct-17 08:43:31

Can he not take the extra days unpaid?
So he can go but it will also teach him to plan better!

2ndSopranos Mon 09-Oct-17 09:48:00

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FallingSkye Mon 09-Oct-17 09:49:25

Just say
"Well it's great you have the leave you can now have x amount of time to yourself, I've already offered your place to x, y and z."

Why does he do this "everytime"? Tell you that he can't go then that he can? Seems very manipulative

SleepingInYourFlowerbed Mon 09-Oct-17 09:50:59

I'd be annoyed because of your husband alone!

ThumbWitchesAbroad Mon 09-Oct-17 09:53:01

Sooooooo - have you cancelled it?

Madbum Mon 09-Oct-17 09:55:49

Why did he lie?

2ndSopranos Mon 09-Oct-17 09:56:18

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2ndSopranos Mon 09-Oct-17 09:57:28

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ThumbWitchesAbroad Mon 09-Oct-17 11:10:43

Gotta agree - your H is an arse. sad

SloeSloeQuickQuickGin Mon 09-Oct-17 11:13:53

spite him

What a joy to be married to

guilty100 Mon 09-Oct-17 11:13:56

Wait, your DH told you he didn't have leave, but then it turned out he just couldn't be bothered to check?


When you say this happens all the time - what is going on here? Why does he book holidays and then try to bail? It's really odd behaviour.

HolgerDanske Mon 09-Oct-17 11:19:59

He's a dick. Why the fuck is he whingeing about helping you with something you need for his daughter's birthday and so that his other ill daughter doesn't have to be dragged around the shops??

He needs to grow the fuck up. And he needs to be put in his place in regards to the stunt he apparently pulls every time about holidays. It's not on at all. I'd be so cross, I'd have no respect at all for a father like that.

Pippa12 Mon 09-Oct-17 18:24:11

My husband is always making a song and dance about work. I wanted to take the children away for the may bank holiday next year- i changed tactics and said i hoped he could make it but if not i was going to take them with my sister... funnily enough it was all booked and paid for (by him) a couple of days later!

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