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To scale back on friendship?

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BulletFox Sun 08-Oct-17 23:22:29

We've been friends for 20 years, I think things have changed now however.

He is an absolutely lovely person and I'll always want him as a friend (it's part of a wider friendship group) but I had wondered for the last months if I should 'retire' the friendship; not sure if any of my friends really know how ill I am, I'm a satellite friend at present.

I was trying to zone out anyway but he just texted me and for the first time since I've known him I feel uncomfortable about responding

AtrociousCircumstance Sun 08-Oct-17 23:27:38

Can you write more about why you feel this way? And how you feel your illness has impacted on it?

BulletFox Sun 08-Oct-17 23:41:21

Well he's been really brilliant over the years but I'm feeling like I'm a burden. He honestly doesn't ever make me feel like I am until recently when I started to think about detaching.

I deliberately decided not to contact him individually again 3 weeks ago (he's always my friend, no issue about that, I worked with a really lovely group of people and we're all friends) until he texted tonight and felt bad about feeling uneasy about responding.

I will do tomorrow, I have to, now I'm starting to feel bad about not being there

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