Ds has ASD and is often vulnerable to others teasing which extends to bullying at times.
He's a prime target because he can't retaliate using language and they love watching him get upset.
One lad from school who also goes same club with DS has been calling him a name for 6 months. I've told ds to ignore or tell adult if it gets out of hand. A few weeks ago he made fun of ds for something he can't do due to physical disability in front of whole group. Adult in charge dealt with it at the time.
Anyway turns out that ds has decided in the last few weeks to use a nickname for this lad. Nothing nasty just keeps doing it even though he knows it annoys him.
Mum spoke to me at club to have a word with my DS and I told her she should be speaking to her DS who has been doing it for 6 months now to mine and another lad at school and if her DS doesn't like it he should have stopped long before mine retaliated.
I also told her to speak to school if she has an issue with school stuff as they will deal with it as they know there's been issues between them in the past.
I've obviously spoken to DS and have told him it's akin to bullying even if it's retaliation and to stop and report everytime to his keyworker.
The mum did have the grace to say no one had told her before and I pointed out that at their age they should be learning to deal with it through the adults responsible for them at the time and not run to mummy and get her to fight their battles.
I'm not worried ds I've got it wrong because if you ask any kid at the school if they know this boy they all say he's a spoilt and nasty piece of work.
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To have given this boys mum a piece of my mind?
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youarenotkiddingme · 08/10/2017 21:27
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