Sorry, this might be a long one.
I've been friendly with another mum at DHs class for almost 4yrs now. We had a few Mums Night's outs and generally got on really well. She's been over for playdates with her DH and we been to theirs.
She has invited me and DH over without the kids a couple of times. On occasions it was kind of last minute and based on when the other guests were invited, I kind of felt that we were on the "B list".
Anyhow, tried to be not sensitive about it as it's just life really.
I've invited them back last year for DHs 40th (after her 1st invite). Big party, invites went out well in advance. They never showed, no messages, nothing. Days later I run into her at the school gate and only when I asked if everything is ok did she came up with an excuse of her DD not feeling well on the night.
We went out a couple of nights afterwards (again, a group of Mums) and we were invited to theirs once. (big party, most guests known for weeks, she told me 2 days before)
This weekend we had an occasion and it was a big one, so I invited her and her DH. Can you guess? No show, no message, nothing.
I can't decide if I am being unreasonable or rightfully upset. It's not like I can avoid her. I feel "ditched" and frankly a bit offended. AIBU to feel like this? I feel quite embarassed and have no idea how to react when I next see her.
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Fretty · 08/10/2017 13:09
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