I've changed my usual username and I've posted in AIBU for traffic. My ds2 turned 15 this week. As background because he got a bad report last term, we've not allowed him to go to sleepovers or parties until we see a general improvement in grades. Tonight one of the girls in his year had a party. He was invited but not allowed to go. We let him invite some friends for a sleepover in our house to compensate as it was his birthday weekend. Ds2 showed up at 7 with his mates. He was clearly stoned while his friends were not. This is the first time for him to come home like that. We quickly pulled him aside and he said his 'good' friend had been teasing him about not being allowed to the party so when he offered him a joint in the park he took it. I felt gutted partly because I knew this boy's sister's bf did drugs (from a PCSO friend). Because of this knowledge, I was a bit on edge about this friend. Now I am sure that they got the weed from the sister's bf, I want to tell the parents particularly as they encourage the local kids to hang out at their house. Dh says this is pointless but I think this is because ds2 is begging him not to and he is soft. I actually suspect more kids were smoking weed tonight and it was at this boy's house. Should I tell the parents?
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