It's Saturday night and I've had a few beers so I guess I'm feeling a bit fighty, but only because this is something that's been bothering me for a while and it has been sparked by the 'Books you wished you'd never read' thread, a number of posters said they had thrown books away rather than subject people to the content.
And films people wished they'd never watched because they were traumatised.
But, and this is the big but, where I'm probably going to get a thrashing, there are often threads about abortion, where posters say you 'Will never get over it'.
And threads about miscarriage where people say, 'You will never get over it'.
And I completely respect their stance and experience, BUT, as someone who has had both miscarriages and abortions I found them both very easy to get over and put behind me, and I think the telling women that they Won't, can make things much harder for people.
If they do, they may feel guilt, or it may make women feel they can't have an abortion because they will always feel conflict.
I guess my point is, everyone responds to things differently, you can't go round chucking books away because you found them distasteful, you can't council a woman who has had a miscarriage she will never get over it and you can't advise against an abortion because it 'will affect you forever'.
And yes, it is a goady title but I'm a little bit irritated about absolutism when it comes down to women, choice, and mental health.
It's ok to be ok.
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ILikeyourHairyHands · 07/10/2017 22:59
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