Long story but the short version is that 5 months ago DH decided he wanted to change jobs as the one he was in was stressful/ nights. Fair enough. But the new job he took was £1000 a month less and at the time I voiced strong concerns, asked how he was going to make up the difference in our budget etc. He ignored all of it- and now 5 months down the line we are financially broken and it's caused no end of problems. I'm really angry and really worried- I can, luckily, return to full time work in my job and it's well paid - it will be a couple of months before I can do it.
But the whole thing is a nightmare-- DH has taken no responsibility at all for the decision and the predicament we find ourselves in now. We have gone from being pretty ok to being barely able to afford food and its totally because of his job. I think he's been selfish/ unreasonable/ has put our family life at risk and has worried our children as they overheard a row and my 9 year old said he was scared. FFS. It makes me even madder that my children feel insecure too.
I feel like it's come down to me to sort the mess out- I might even have to ask my parents to lend me money to get through the next month or two. DH will take no responsibility and says that I am putting him under pressure and I am an unreasonable bitch (hence the title) - Aibu to be fuming at the position he has put us in? I feel like leaving but at the moment I can't because of the financial crisis he has caused
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Happyhappyveggie · 06/10/2017 21:17
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