So my youngest who is 2.5 attends a childminder 5 days a week for roughly 6 hours each day. I want to say that I love my childminder, she's brilliant with my daughter who also thinks the world of her. My issue is more with CM's daughter. She has an 8 month old and went back to work when said child was around 5 months old. The child is minded by my CM, I have no issue with this at all.
The CM has mentioned a few times that her DD is struggling being back at work and really misses her child. She mentioned about 6 weeks ago that her daughter had asked her if she could "work from home" at her house, so she could see her child on her lunch & tea breaks. My CM told me that she told her it wasn't a good idea as her house is extremely noisy at times and she didn't think it fair on the kids she minds, presumably by asking them to be quiet. No more was said about it.
Fast forward to today when I was chatting to CM at pick-up and she mentioned that she had had a stressful week. She then mentioned that her daughter was stressing her out by coming in and demanding she keeps the kids quiet as she's on an important work call. So the arrangement is going ahead and I feel a bit angry if I'm honest. Finding it hard to pinpoint why but just worried that I'm paying out money for my daughter to constantly shushed. This may not be the case but the whole situation doesn't sit well with me.
So over to you lot, preparing for a flaming!
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Childminderissues123 · 06/10/2017 19:35
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