I can’t decide if it’s just me being petty. I don’t want them to get sacked or anything but I want them to change their systems or practices.
I had a molar pregnancy in April and had to have chemo for it. I actually posted about it on here when I got my bfp. I was due on Christmas Day and frankly it’s been pretty shitty.
I needed an ecg on Monday and I sat down and she said she’d need to do my bp.. the conversation went like this...
Her- ooh are you all excited? I can see you’re on lots of tablets to make you feel better...
Me-... .....
her- are you getting ready?
Me- ready for what?
Her- the baby... you’re having a baby in December aren’t you? You’re all excited right?
Me- I’m not pregnant it was a molar pregnancy- I’m here to have an ecg because of the chemo..
her- oh yes! I can see that now.. oh well at least you know you can get pregnant eh? And at least I didn’t say you looked 7 months! . I had a termination with my last one. Best thing I ever did....
I didn’t have a termination- it was a very wanted pregnancy that went very tits up and if the information is there on the screen do you have to be prompted to read it?
I’m actually really hurt by what she said, my DH isn’t really bothered by it but it’s making me upset to think about it. So please help me settle an argument. Aibu to want to complain over this hcp’s thoughtlessness or am I totally overreacting?
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PhDPepper · 06/10/2017 01:18
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