Some perspective urgently required please , I posted this yesterday on relationships but only had one lovely reply but am so confused as to what to do I thought I'd brace aibu
So not to drip feed or type for hours I'll try and keep it simple.
Moved from family and friends with DH of 1 year to a rural location several hundred miles away. I relied on him for everything initially and trusted him , unusual for me as I had a track record of choosing idiots who couldn't be trusted with the budgie let alone anything that walked talked had huge norks 
Anyway after a year or so I felt stifled and managed to get a fab job that I love and embrace the country life. I miss my family terribly but they have just got on with their lives and it seems I wasn't that important to them. Last year my trust in DH was shattered when he commenced an emotional affair with his work colleague . I have neither forgotten or forgiven but due to a shock death in my family in which he supported me unquestionably I have moved on and we are seemingly ok.
He has now suggested he is fed up with work and we should take a pre retirement gap year and travel round Europe. Before everything happened I would of been excited but now I'm thinking if I gave up our little home and lovely job I may regret it if we split up while away.
Or should I just go with the flow and embrace life as I would of done a couple years ago.
Sorry that was rambling!
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elephantsandhearts · 04/10/2017 08:16
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