I have good reason to suspect my OH is gambling and stealing money from me. I caught him out last year, he had gambled away over £3000 of family money over a 3 month period.
If I ever question him now he always offers me to check his bank account - but I think he's using another means.
I regularly have cash in the house as sometimes customers pay cash and I can't always get straight to the bank.
So many times bits have gone missing, but I put it down to me having spent it and forgotten.
This time I had a big wad which I hadn't touched as it was hidden away. He knew where it was. I went to get it yesterday so I could pay into bank, and £500 was missing.
I asked him if he knew anything about it and he got really upset, said no way, swore on our kids lives (I bloody hate it when he does that).
But there is no other explanation.
I think he's gambling again, but can't prove it. Any ideas on how I could get proof?
If he is that really would be the end between us.
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Beenconned · 30/09/2017 13:45
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