DD is 2 and at nursery. She is usually quite friendly with the other children in her class and happy to share but occasionally gets absorbed in a task, and will quietly but purposefully sit sorting cups or building blocks and gets very upset if disturbed when doing it (also happens at home). On more than one occasion I have noticed one particular child who will see when she is like this and will always come and disturb her - taking one of the sorting cups or breaking her block tower and will run away with it. DD then bursts into tears, runs after the child and eventually the child gives the item back to her. DD returns to her task, and moments later the cycle repeats. Each time she gets more and more upset. Obviously I am only seeing this snippet of their interactions but I've noticed the nursery staff have a stock ' please share' response and she gets made to play with this child ( when she obviously doesn't want to, and there are plenty of other blocks/sorting cups for the other child). I don't think this is fair ( putting myself in her shoes, I'd be annoyed at someone bothering me if I was absorbed in something) but what do I do/say about it? I'm not sure if relevant by the other child is a boy.
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Losek · 26/09/2017 23:43
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