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Glowsticksforthehoechicks Mon 25-Sep-17 23:40:27

Moment , as in emotional , I actually feel like my heart may physically break is this normal ?

ProverbialOuthouse Mon 25-Sep-17 23:43:09

What's happened?

I remember once being so heartbroken I felt physical pain - almost like I was going to physically break apart.

GirlOnATrainToShite Mon 25-Sep-17 23:44:12

I have felt like this - it's horrid.

I hope you are ok OP flowers

MaryPoppinsPenguins Mon 25-Sep-17 23:45:49

When I found out my daughter had a lifelong disability via a phone call. It was physical pain. I had to see a doctor to calm down.

It's awful OP, but it will pass flowers

Hadenoughtoday Mon 25-Sep-17 23:46:49

Another MNer asking if you are okay.

Yes I have and the moment still has the power to make my cry.

LagunaBubbles Mon 25-Sep-17 23:47:12

Hope you're ok OK. Mine was sitting in hospital all night just waiting for My Mum to die, it was absolute agony and when we were told she had died I actually felt like my body was breaking up and my mind was shattering.

BrandNewHouse Mon 25-Sep-17 23:47:14

Breaking up with first love. It took a long time to get over him.
I remember about a year down the line getting a coffee from the machine at work for a 10:30 meeting and realizing I hadn't thought about him up until then that day, and being gutted that I was starting to move on.

SusanMitchell Mon 25-Sep-17 23:47:43

The day I left my abusive husband. I thought I was going to die from the grief at losing the life I should have had.

Yes, it's normal to feel physical pain. Just allow yourself to go through it and it will lessen eventually. Look after yourself - eat good food and try to sleep as much as possible.

DJBaggySmalls Mon 25-Sep-17 23:48:27

When The One decided it wasn't working and left. I honestly thought my heart could break into 2 pieces, it was a physical pain.
(Fortunately I realized a year later that he was a knob.)

FranksBobot Mon 25-Sep-17 23:54:51

I hope you're ok op.

I had that moment when they discovered no heartbeat. I literally thought my heart had snapped in two. In a way it kind of did.

The physical pain is like nothing I've ever experienced before or after and still haunts me daily.

What ever it is, you can get through it. flowers

HubrisComicGhoul Mon 25-Sep-17 23:54:53

Like your heart is being squeezed and it hurts to breathe? My sister died, I got in the car, played very loud music and screamed, all the way to my dad's, where I finally cried.

It does pass, find a way to get through it and be as selfish and irrational as you need to be right now, whatever keeps you going.

ParkheadParadise Mon 25-Sep-17 23:56:02

My most painful moment was when the police came to my door and told me that my dd had been found dead.

It's 2years next month and my heart is still broken.

Hope your ok.

Cellardoor23 Mon 25-Sep-17 23:57:01

I hope you're ok flowers

Yes, I have experienced this. Similar to LagunaBubbles It's horrible. It was something that happened unexpected and very sudden. Shock followed shortly after, although I didn't realise it (the shock) at the time.

lovecamping Mon 25-Sep-17 23:59:26

Grief from premature death of sister & dad & deceitful dh.. all those things feel they broke me physically.

lovecamping Tue 26-Sep-17 00:00:23

Deceitful dh isn't dead (though I do wish painful things for him)

SpitefulMidLifeAnimal Tue 26-Sep-17 00:12:48

My brother died very suddenly at 39. I had to tell my mum.

brew and flowers for anyone who needs them.

CherryChasingDotMuncher Tue 26-Sep-17 00:14:31

Getting the phone call about my dad’s sudden death

My now DH dumping me in the early stages of our relationship (we got back together 3 days later), I laid on the floor for hours sobbing

The worst was when I was 19, it was after I told my mum that my stepdad had been sexually harassing me for years and that he sexually abused me as a child. she left him at first, and I was so happy that she’d escaped his clutches and knew the truth and that I could go to the police. About a week later, and the moment she told me that she was getting back together with him, I swear my heart broke. Physical pain, total devastation. She’s still with him to this day, and I can’t forgive her, I can’t really love her properly after that.

Chloebobbins Tue 26-Sep-17 00:14:36

When my mother dropped us off with a relative and said see you later girls and never came back. I was five at the time and was heartbroken for years, she didn't die, she just ran away!

brasty Tue 26-Sep-17 00:24:19

Getting a phone call that someone close to me had been found having killed themselves.
Followed by phone call telling me a family member had been murdered.
Other people close to me have died, but suicide and murder are particularly hard to deal with.

elisaveta Tue 26-Sep-17 00:26:40

flowers OP.
I couldn't breathe when a beloved friend died. It's very frightening. Have you got anyone with you to look after you?

ladymariner Tue 26-Sep-17 00:31:06

When my Dad died. The pain was, and at times still is, indescribable. flowers to everyone on tis thread

Storminateapot Tue 26-Sep-17 00:33:37

When my Dad died. Pain beyond belief.

My ex-DH cheating on me (for the first time) I was distraught. By the end and after the nth time I found I didn't give many shits at all. I was young...

username7979 Tue 26-Sep-17 00:33:54

seems like you have just been experiencing something very traumatic. Look after your Glow.

Hadenoughtoday Tue 26-Sep-17 00:34:35

park wanted to send you a virtual hug

HellAintABadPlaceToBe Tue 26-Sep-17 00:35:38

When my fiancé died. Was awful, it really is a physical pain, like your heart really is going to break.

Hope you're ok flowers

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