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AIBU?

Husband

27 replies

EveOnline2016 · 25/09/2017 22:16

Aibu to be extremely pissed off and considering divorce after husband lost his job over sickies.

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Whisky2014 · 25/09/2017 22:19

Yanbu

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FakePlasticTeaLeaves · 25/09/2017 22:21

Hung over sickies?

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EveOnline2016 · 25/09/2017 22:22

Cba to go in sickies

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Moanyoldcow · 25/09/2017 22:23

If he's actually sick then YABU.

If it's just sick days because he can't be arsed the YANBU and I'd be fucking furious too.

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BakedBeans47 · 25/09/2017 22:23

YANBU

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MiddleClassProblem · 25/09/2017 22:24

What Moanyoldcow said

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ChicRock · 25/09/2017 22:24

YANBU - bin the lazy workshy waster.

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Longdistance · 25/09/2017 22:25

Yanbu

What an idiot.

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Ellendegeneres · 25/09/2017 22:25

Ltb

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needtimewithwineandlesswhine · 25/09/2017 22:25

Do you have kids? Are you working? I'd be mega pissed. Baby

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WineIsMyMainVice · 25/09/2017 22:26

Presumably he would have had warnings. So yanbu.

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pictish · 25/09/2017 22:26

Ugh no. That's not good.

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needtimewithwineandlesswhine · 25/09/2017 22:26

I wrote 'nbu' and it spell checked. 'Baby' Not calling anyone names haha

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SunSeaAndSangria · 25/09/2017 22:26

Yanbu.

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missymayhemsmum · 25/09/2017 22:28

Lazy sickies or too depressed to get out of bed and go to work sickies?

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EveOnline2016 · 25/09/2017 22:34

I work. We have 2 kids in which we agreed on before conception what would happen.

Now I has an 11 year who is ASD and a an 8 year old.

Feel in a mess

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Mulch · 25/09/2017 22:36

Sorry op thats tremendous strain on your shoulders. Is he depressed, lazy or a combination?

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Comedyusername · 25/09/2017 22:36

Blimey that's awful. Sorry Flowers

YANBU

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MiddleClassProblem · 25/09/2017 22:41

But was he sick or not?

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timeisnotaline · 25/09/2017 22:44

Op has said he wasn't sick. I couldn't live with that myself.

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MiddleClassProblem · 25/09/2017 22:46

Sorry didn't get the cba meaning but got it now

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MargaretTwatyer · 25/09/2017 22:52

Is this under the Bradford system?

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MumsOnCrack · 25/09/2017 22:53

Flowers I'm so sorry this has happened

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coddiwomple · 25/09/2017 22:56

You are now the only one working, supporting yourself, your 2 children and him? YANBU to be very annoyed. It should at the very minimum be 50/50. You shouldn't have to support him because he's lazy.

I am not sure what to advise, he's a grown up, he should realise how much your family needs to survive, and that you won't support him!

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timeisnotaline · 26/09/2017 12:40

I don't know if there's anything to advise. If he's not mentally ill, then you can't fix can't be arsed-itis. It's terminal, all you can do is get as far away as you can.

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